Life in the Big City

Part of what makes Pacific Program so intriguing as a study abroad option is the number of places that I get to visit as a study abroad student. What I didn’t realize was the interesting mixture of urban and rural areas these places would end up being. The rural areas gave me a calming perspective on life, isolation, and friendships, but the urban areas I’ve been to have been just as valuable to my learning experience.

I’ve spent my entire life in either the metro Atlanta or Atlanta areas which are suburban and urban environments respectively. Both have made large city environments feel natural and like home to me. Many people describe feeling crushed or oppressed by city life, but I see city life as full of opportunities and culture. Wellington was the first big city that we visited as part of this program.

Based on my personal experiences, I actually never would have considered Wellington that big of a city, but it’s the second largest city in New Zealand. The feel of Wellington is something that must be experienced, but I will attempt to describe for those who cannot cross the world. Wellington is a place full of the friendliest people with an interesting mixture of both Maori and Western culture. Evidence of New Zealand culture is everywhere in the form of free museums, art, and architecture. The strangest part of the entire place is that you feel as though you can walk anywhere in the city in an hour. After a couple weeks, everything feels familiar to you and it feels like home. You know the street names, the shortcuts, the best places to go. In my six weeks in Wellington, I felt as though I had made a new home for myself. I believe I had this feeling because of both the city of
Wellington and the Kiwis that inhabit it. Since Wellington, whether it’s because of time spent or the place itself, I haven’t found anywhere that feels quite like home. Nowhere that I feel I could start a life there and be perfectly happy.

Sydney was the second, and only other, big city that we visited while on Pacific Program. Unlike Wellington, it wasn’t a city where you felt comfortable after a couple of weeks and it never felt like home to me. The amount of people on the sidewalks would be claustrophobic and the streets were eternally confusing with their 5-way intersections. By the time I left, I had figured out how to get to a few places by walking and a few by train, but not much else. Even the fact that I had to take a train showed a large disparity from Wellington since I couldn’t walk the city comfortably. Part of the joy of walking is taking in the view and instead I was underground looking at concrete walls to navigate to where I wished to be.

While I enjoyed the activities that I did in Sydney, I missed Wellington. I didn’t think I would achieve such a level of comfort anywhere while abroad and I found myself surprised that I could do so over 8,000 km away from home. Both Sydney and Wellington were vastly different from my own hometown of Atlanta, but I can find parallels in both places with where I come from. Things that I like and many that I don’t, but none of the three are the same. Yes, they are all urban spaces, but each is unique. The uniqueness of the urban environment is something I didn’t think that I would learn while abroad in the Pacific, but this program has surprised me once again.


I realize now the subtle nuances of what makes a city feel like home and how liking one city doesn’t mean that you will like all urban environments that you encounter. I’m actually thankful that Sydney wasn’t my favorite city because it led me to these realizations. Going back to Atlanta, I hope to be able to see elements of both Sydney and Wellington in my city because, after my travels, that would make Atlanta feel even more like home to me. My goal when I return to Atlanta is to better appreciate the city that I live in and to explore its wonders more. I have in the past been too caught up in schoolwork to explore as much as I should to truly appreciate my city the way I have Wellington and Sydney. I believe I can change that when I get back to better appreciate the uniqueness of the place in which I live.

~S

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